There may have been high octane fuel in the tanks of the NASCARS at Daytona Beach, Florida this weekend as Tom Cruise and Keith Urban attended the Daytona International Speedway, but we’re sure the height of the testosterone was off the radar when the ex, and the current husbands, of Australian actress Nicole Kidman shook hands prior to the kick off of the Daytona 500.

Each of the guys where on hand to show there own personal skills with Tom arriving with his and Nicole’s adopted child, 14 year old Connor, showing his parenting skills and Urban went up on stage strumming his guitar and singing to an adoring crowd.

Tom and Connor took the opportunity to sit in the car that had appeared in Tom’s movie Days of Thunder, the 1990 movie which first saw him and Nicole teaming up together.

But it was clearly Tom who came out on top as the coolest dad and the guy with no grudges! While seated on the opposite side of the stadium to the performing Urban, Tom clapped his hands with gusto as the country singer performed a surprise two-song set, showing that he is totally happy with the situation and is content with his new wife Katie Holmes and their baby daughter, Suri.